THE HEAT GOES ON… August (Part 163a)
The bedroom furniture that
Elle and I’d ordered the previous week was to have been delivered on
Tuesday. There had been a mix-up on the delivery order sent to the
warehouse and Thursday had been inserted as the day. Elle got the call
informing her of the error right after I’d left for work and wasn’t to
happy about it but was mollified by the fact that they would throw in
two matching night stands for half price. It was a good deal but I was a
bit upset by the fact Elle didn’t call to ask me first. In any case
Elle was really excited Thursday morning anticipating what the bedroom
would look like completely furnished. I got the impression she was more
excited about the night stands than the two dressers as I left the
house. It was just another item in the ever growing list of things I
didn’t understand about females and the way they think.
When I
got to the bank on Thursday I was still apprehensive about how I was to
co-exist with Jerry and still be his superior. After my meeting with Gee
Wednesday morning I’d been worried that one of the Trustees who had
come to the mortgage committee meeting would want to bring Jerry up but
I’d ‘escaped’ in that not even Gee came over to my desk. I was hoping
for some direction from Hobie but I didn’t want to initiate the
discussion. It was a very uncomfortable position to be in. Bret knew
something was going on but wouldn’t say anything. I’ve alluded to how
Trish had, very quietly, assumed more and more responsibility and
because of it she’d been rewarded with the promotion to administrative
assistant. I’d noticed that she seemed to be aware of a lot of what was
going on within the bank and that morning she surprised me when she
asked if she could make a suggestion. She’d done that before but without
asking permission. I thought it would have to do with procedures but
she’d been talking on a personal basis. Initially I was a bit upset but I
let her go on.
She said that all week I’d been “uptight” and she
was sure it had to do with Jerry. When I didn’t stop her there she went
on that she pretty much understood because when he’d been working there
he did the same thing to her. But she said she noticed that the
situation was affecting how I was relating to customers and to the
employees. Not only that but she said she’d noticed that I’d missed a
couple of report deadlines. I sat and I listened. There was nothing to
argue about because she was right. In stead of being upset with her I
just smiled… and put both my hands up as if to say “you caught me”.
Trish
was around 25 years old at that time but had been with the bank seven
years. It sounds trite but she was wise beyond her years. She was one of
the Polish female employees who I felt should have gone to college.
Because of the mindset of her parents when it came to females and
college she wasn’t allowed to go. So, I respected her observation and
when she told me that it might be best to not let him upset me so much I
didn’t disagree. I know I didn’t think of it at the moment but it was
almost she knew about Gee’s talk with me the previous day. I think I
took a deep breath or two before acknowledging it to her. I told her
what he’d ended the conversation with… “Document, don’t react.” Trish
was very much aware of the notes both Bret and I’d been making about
Jerry and his questionable actions. She brought it up and suggested that
I make them in the form of a memo “for the file” and she’d type them up
for me. I thought about it for a minute and decided it was good idea.
We talked a little more and decided to have Bret do the same thing. When
she was about to get up I thanked her and, with a smile, said “It
sounds like a plan.”
It was sometime later that day that Trish said there was a man there to
see me. I didn’t have any appointments so was a bit puzzled and got up
and walked over to the gate to the platform. A tall red headed man,
about mid 20’s, with a big smile introduced himself as Andy. I didn’t
recognize him or the name. I’m sure it was the puzzled look on my face
that triggered him to say he was the real estate broker that I’d
recommended to my “neighbor” as he called him. At that moment I couldn’t
remember the guy’s name he was referring to but I invited him to my
desk. He wasted no time before thanking me for the referral. I was sort
of amused because I’d done it without knowing him or his company. I just
wanted to get the guy off by back. In any case, Andy was there to ask
me about the history of the house since the guy who’d called him could
give no relevant information. I really didn’t have the time but knowing
that Andy might have a role in who my neighbors would be, told him what I
knew. I told him of the renovations that had been done before Sabrina
(Lisa) had moved in about two years before. The big question he had was
what the new shed contained. He’d been sent keys for the house and
garage but not the shed. I, truthfully, had no idea. When Sabrina’s
(Lisa’s) father sold the house (with Bill [the school principal] and his
wife still renting it) he’d built a new shed out along the rear
property line supposedly for the new owner. I’d asked Bill if he knew
what it was for but he had no idea and offered that after completion it
had always been locked. So, to Andy I was no help. I suggested that he
get a locksmith to open it for him and he, with a sheepish look, thanked
me for suggesting it. As he was leaving I gave him Amy business card
and asked him to keep me up to date on any prospects telling him that my
wife and I were ‘requesting’ a young couple with kids. He just laughed.
I
was on my way out the door to leave when I heard Hobie call out to me. I
turned and walked back into the lobby to meet with him. I was hoping
that he’d give me some clarification about my supervisory role with
Jerry and was somewhat rewarded when he told me that Jerry was,
technically, still under my supervision, but… The ‘but’ was that he was
going to do it “off the record” for the next two months. I was still
confused but was willing to accept that knowing that I still had my job.
As I turned to walk away I heard him say “Have patience…” Patience was
something I didn’t have a lot of (still don’t) especially when I was
aware of something that was wrong, should be fixed, and nothing was
being done about it. That, very simply, was Jerry.
To be continued…
4 comments:
I am puzzled, an off the record supervisor? How does one supervise off the record? Stranger and stranger the machinations of management in that place. My observations are all "off the record"
OB... I promise it'll be explained in the near future...
Trish sure was a sharp one!
Bad
BS... for sure!
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