ANOTHER YEAR... new adventures (Part 151o)
Bert’s wife was an
invalid suffering from polio. He was devoted to her to the extent that
he was her caregiver from roughly 5pm to 9am each day. He prepared all
her meals and actually fed her. While at work the nurse who had cared
for my grandmother came to the house to look after her. Bert would
usually arrive at the bank around 9:15am or so unless there was something
really important happening. So... for him to have me meet him at 8:30am
sent a message... and now I was going to find out what it was.
As
usual, I climbed the stairs to the second floor. I stopped at the top
and could see Bert standing behind his desk. To me, that wasn’t a good
sign. I proceeded to the door and he waved me in and with another wave of his
hand motioned for me to close it. He started talking even before it had
latched. I did a bit of a ‘double take’ as I heard the words ”Think
before you act.“ I could’ve sworn it was my deceased grandfather
mouthing them. I’d heard the words many times as I was growing up around him.
At that point I thought I was in for a diatribe.
Still standing,
Bert, calmly, stated that he understood my frustration upon finding out
about the details of the new hire. He went on to say that it had been
his understanding at the close of the Board meeting that Hobie would
speak to me and that now he understood that because of his mother in
law’s health problem, that hadn’t occurred. BUT, (and it was emphasized)
since it wasn’t a critical issue I should’ve waited to talk with Hobie
before coming to see him. It was hard standing there and not saying
anything... but I did. Bert went on to say that my taking the matter
into my own hands and calling my friend at the new guy’s bank was the
most egregious error. The man’s hiring was a Board issue and I had no
right to make such a call. Not only that but my friend was also in error
in giving out the information he did. Now I was really worried
that Don was in trouble too.
All I could do was stand there and
listen. Then, the mood of the meeting seemed to change. Bert
acknowledged that he called my friend and the information that I’d
passed on to Bert had been corroborated. The man was NOT an officer.
Hearing that took a little pressure off me. Bert went on to say that he'd talked with
the chairman of the branch committee to see what had been said or done
to make him think that an assistant branch manager was a corporate
officer. What he told me actually made me mad. The Board member had thought the new man was an officer. To me, it was just another
example showing the Trustees were dealing in areas that they had no
experience with. It was my understanding that they were to oversee the bank's performance, not manage it. That's why people like Bert, Hobie and I were hired and that was when I finally opened my mouth...
but not for long.
I questioned Bert on why the people who actually run he
bank, day to day, weren’t involved in the interviewing or in any of the
decision making in the new hire. That made Bert put his hand up to shut me up. Only
because I respected him as a person did I obey because I was just about
to ‘go off’ on the whole concept of Trustees managing versus overseeing the running of the bank. With his hand still raised, as if he were about to take an oath, he
asked me to let him finish. A couple of deep breaths later I nodded in
agreement and he continued. Without going into specifics he
stated that he got the Trustee to admit that he (and the others on the
committee) had made a mistake. They agreed that it was necessary to
contact the man and to have him come to the bank to renegotiate his
title and that, if he agreed to it, would be the same as both Bret
and I, assistant secretary, with him being third in line as far as
authority was concerned.
To me, even knowing that the new man would
have to agree to the proposal was a small victory. At that point Bert
asked if that was satisfactory. I hesitated before answering because it
still seemed wrong that he would be making more money than Bret and I
and would, to some degree, be reporting to me... so I spoke up. I was
watching his face as I spoke my piece and it didn’t seem to upset him. I
waited to see if he was going to say anything and I’m glad I did. He
reached for the phone and called Gee, the Trustee/attorney that was
chairman of the salary committee. I listened as he questioned him about
when he was calling for the special salary committee meeting that had been agreed to. When Bert
hung up he told me that it would be addressed by the end of the month. I
didn’t have an answer but the fact that Gee was involved gave me some
confidence that there would be a favorable solution.
By then it
was close to 9am. Bert had his secretary contact Hobie and to instruct
him to come on upstairs. Hearing that kind of put a damper on what I’d
taken as a somewhat favorable solution. Hobie was rather solemn and, not
knowing the details about his mother in law, I could only hope that was
the reason. Bert went over the conversation he had with me and repeated
that he would get the new guy in on Friday to renegotiate his position.
Hobie never said a word. Then Bert told me I was free to go but Hobie
remained. The one good thing was that other than being told I hadn’t
handled the situation all that well there was no punishment. For that I
was thankful but wondered how my relationship with Hobie and members of
the Board would be in the future as I made my way back downstairs.
To be continued...
3 comments:
I hate having things hanging over my head! Hope it all went OK. Hobie seems like he was a good guy, hopefully he was understanding.
No person in charge ever appreciates having their incompetence pointed out, even in an indirect manner. Good for you, for standing up for yourself. The Trustees were probably pillars in the community who felt they were smarter than the people they hired to run their operation.
BS... when I started writing this part I had no notes to work with. But once I started the negative feelings I'd suppressed kept bubbling up and it ended up being far longer than I expected. Now it's back to the stated topic!
OB... I question the "pillars" part of your definition. In their own minds... yes... but in reality... ????
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