CATCHING UP... a bit (Part 123e)
The kids, Pat’s
daughter included, had been quietly entertaining themselves while we
were discussing the San Soucie catalogs. During the lull when Pat went
into the bathroom to try on the panties they suddenly appeared wanting
to know when they were going to eat. When Pat reappeared that was the
subject being discussed and Pat was put upon by her daughter to go home.
I didn’t know what to say or do. Still upset with Pat’s attitude, I
wanted to know what she thought about the panties but I also knew it was
not a subject to be brought up with the kids present... so I didn’t say
or do anything. Without saying a word to Elle or I, or even giving a
hint about the panties, Pat proceeded to gather up her coat and to
shepherd her daughter to the door. The only words she spoke were to Elle
and that was to say that she’d be ”in touch“.
I had to
wait until supper was done and the dishes washed before I could express
my thoughts about what had happened. Elle, not wanting to do or say
anything to upset Pat because of the help she offered with the Brownie
troop as well the potential to make money doing alterations for her,
just shrugged it off. That made me even madder. The woman had walked off
wearing a pair of panties that didn’t belong to her without mentioning
anything about them. I went into the den to calm down and to watch some
TV and realized I didn’t know where the catalogs were. I went back into
the kitchen and asked Elle where they were and she didn’t know. The only
place they could be was with Pat. Now I was really mad. I headed for
the phone but Elle pretty much knew what I was going to do and pleaded
with me not to make the call. She promised that she’d get it all sorted
out the next day. I did start to dial Pat’s number but backed off before
dialing the last digit.
As if all that wasn’t enough
for one day, the phone rang just before 10pm. Expecting that it was bad
news of some sort, since normal people didn’t make casual calls at that
time of night, I was right... but it was a different type of bad news.
It was Celia. A few days after her yard had been cleaned up she called
Vic, the real estate agent, and told him she was ready for him to list
the property for sale. Like all good agents, he wanted to see for
himself and had come over that day. What he’d told her wasn’t what she
wanted to hear. Yes, the grounds (and garage) had been addressed but the
house itself wasn’t ready to be shown. She proceeded to tell me, almost
word for word, what he’d told her and it was clear to me that she
didn’t agree. She admitted that she’d been so mad after he left that she
had decided to stay put and not move. However, as she calmed down she
realized that that was not possible and had called to ask my advice. I
wanted to ask her if she realized just what time it was.
I
sat and listened to her for over a half hour. Elle gave up on me and
went to bed by herself. Basically, Vic told her that it would be a waste
of time to show the house as it was. The most important thing to
address was the stale cigarette smoke smell. She told me that she didn’t
think it was all that bad but I reminded her that she’d lived in that
atmosphere for over twenty years and had grown used to it. Then she told
me that Vic had suggested getting rid of the upholstered furniture,
rugs and curtains since the smell was embedded into the material. Before
she could editorialize on that I interrupted her to ask just what were
her plans for the furniture since she had told me she was going to live
with her sister. All I got was dead silence. I had to ask if she was
still on the line at least twice. When she finally acknowledged me I
told her to sleep on it and that I would call the next night after I’d
had my supper.
I really wasn’t looking forward to going
over there that next day but I’d said I would. It was dark out and as I
pushed my way through the hedge I stopped and looked at the lights on
in her house. In a weird sort of way I knew I’d miss the two of them.
Celia was waiting at the kitchen door and appeared to be in much better
control of her emotions than when I’d last talked with her. She opened
with the news that her sister and nephew would be out the next day. She
told me that, between the two of them, they would decide what furniture
would be going with her when she made the move. To me, that was great
news. Then she asked if I had any idea what to do with what they decided
not to take. I knew... but didn’t have the heart to tell her the truth.
I hemmed and hawed for a few minutes and then thought of the auctioneer
that my father had used when my grandparents furniture was sold. That
seemed to satisfy her. She still couldn’t accept what Vic had told her
about first impressions when it came to showing houses. Without knowing
just what Vic had told her I tried to reinforce the concept. There
wasn’t much more to say but when I was about to leave she grabbed my arm
and asked if I really could notice the stale smell of cigarettes. I
smiled and nodded my head affirmatively. Then she let me out the door.
I
took the initiative and contacted the auctioneer the next morning. He
told me he had an auction scheduled for the weekend at his barn and was
more than willing to stop by at Celia’s to see what was there. Excited, I
called her right up. I thought she’d be excited too but I definitely
didn’t get the response I’d hoped for. I gave her his name and told her
that he’d be stopping by late that day. Because she didn’t seem all that
receptive I called the auctioneer back to give him the background of
the situation. As I hung up the phone I wondered if I hadn’t gone just a
bit too far.
Even though I wanted to know if Celia and
her sister had made any decisions and what the auctioneer had told her,
I was determined not to call. I was spending way too much time on her
problems and I wasn’t sure that she wasn’t using me as a crutch. In the
last situation with Vic she’d asked me for advice and I gave it to her.
The thing was after I gave it to her she wanted to argue with me. I came
close to telling her that if she wanted to argue, do it with Vic, not
me but I recognized that it had been a tough time for her and kept my
mouth shut.
To be continued...
2 comments:
We all seek advice, but what we want to hear is the opinion that agrees with what we have already decided on. When it does not go our way we get angry with the giver and that's just being human.
OB... I'm much wiser now but, at the time... well, it just didn't seem right.
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